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Enjoy the past comments below for About getting to ‘must’…
Exceptional then and this time too!
It goes without saying that in peaceful, settled societies art in whatever form will flourish. Indeed it is true as we see the proliferation of art and artists in the developed countries of the world. Everyone it seems, is an artist! Great letter.
Oh, great timing for this letter, thank you :)
“Keep the company of the doers, not the talkers.” Reminds me of something else a wise man once told me. “You can’t be a boxer by watching the match. You have to get in the ring.”
More aware of “truth,justice & harmony within goodnes of the world? Truly belonging to those of
“truth,justice & harmony within goodness of the world? I am reminded upon the words of our Great Creator “Jehovah God”. Declaring within each creative day…it “was Good”! How lovingly appreciation is valued within each of our brush strokes. Yet to ourselves, “life’s value”… does not belong. Are we honoring towards the promised reward found at Rev. 21:3-5.? Considering, not just life now…but the “everlasting life” we aspire too within our inheritance of our loved ones & ourselves? It really is the only promise which historically validates worthwhile aspirations…enriching us all.
What an incredible reflection.
Maslow’s ideas are so simply intelligent and straightforward that one wonders why more of this is not simply applied today. The idea of falling in love with your processes, is, in my estimation, the obvious key to thriving in any medium. Most people have no “must.”
In spite of not ever meeting you in person, I so enjoy reading what you put out. You put in words some of my own thoughts that percolate in me and very often new and interesting ideas that help me to keep on keeping on . A few semesters ago I wrote a paper on Maslow’s theory. I related to what he had to say, so it is fun to connect with you and remember those insights.
Maslow was a guiding light in my career but only to a point on the ladder. I never made it to the top rung as I ran out of time. Came really close, however. No regrets.
Many creative endeavors, including collecting art and other collectibles, are based on the concept of having peak experiences, and then trying to repeat those peak experiences. Like the making of art, it’s habituated.
By controlling and limiting our baser needs, or taking care of them efficiently and yet lovingly, we free our greater minds for the main appropriate activity of life–that is to create.
Have been quietly reading your letters for the past 2 or 3 years… They have been a source of pleasure, inspiration, contemplation…Thank you so much for your dedication to sharing with other artists your thoughts, teaching & experiences. Our unknown futures can only be lived moment to moment. This past spring, a flood was a big wake-up call; I feel blessed that my studio was not flooded, though other artists suffered real loss. While I plan to keep on working/playing in my studio (when not at the “day” job), it’s also going to be a winter of going through & evaluating my own creative output. Clearing out and looking at what I value most. I wish you only the best for your time ahead, made sharper and even more moment-to-moment intense by having to live with a time limit – your love of life & creativity will give you added time, even if it’s because you are living even more clearly than ever. Thank you!
this one really got to me. I understood right away the barriers between me and doing, being. I don’t know how to get around them but knowing they are there i a HUGE start right?! thank you SO much for your insight. and for being thoughtful enough to pass it along. you are a blessing!!!
You have made a difference in my life. You have been a positive voice in the void. You have been so strong in every way and have taught me the best way to live. You have been a mentor and an example. I know that you will be strong in the face of your illness and I send you my force to use as a support. You are an “Art Rock Star”.
Thank you for this it is so appropriate for all to read no matter what their endeavors ….it is extremely generous of you to forward this out to all your subscribers under your present circumstances…
I believe this is true. Maslow has thought this out very logically and personally when the lower needs were not met it did interfere with my “must”.
This is one of your best. Yesterday I realized my responsibility in this world: (at least) pause for beauty. Not everyone has a “beauty reaction.” Next after that is to make the beauty visible to the world. The making benefits yourself as well since the beauty becomes almost like a muscle memory.. Corvallis, OR
Thanks for sharing again this very inspiring letter! They always seem written just for me at a time I need them most!
I have never written to you before, but I need you to know that you have been a solace and steady companion for years now. About seven years ago I met another artist, Michael Abraham, from Canada. he came to NYC to draw and we met at the well-known Spring Studio. One day I was telling him how lonely I felt when I was painting, and since my studio was way in the country in upstate New York, he told me about your letters. Robert, they have helped me so very, very much. THANK YOU! I have spread the work since and other artists have thanked me for that. Fortunately for me I have kept most of your letters and will always refer to them. In peace and admiration.
Maslow is so appropriate for all to read no matter what their endeavors ….it is extremely generous of you to forward this out to all your subscribers under your present circumstances…I wish you and all best. your
Your emails are so valuable to artists everywhere. Thank you for your generosity.
Maslow would have said to be open to the possibility of peak experiences. Many try, but artists are in a unique position to make it happen. Thanks, Ken, for your heartfelt tribute to Robert, above. You are both on the same peak.
The main message is that we have to guide ourselves.
People don’t take the time to find their “must”. They instead fill their life with chores. They mistake these chores for their “must.”
I wanted to add my heartfelt thanks and best wishes to those of the thousands of people responding to your recent news of illness. What you have offered out to the world is a truly precious source of support, knowledge and advice. If we could all be as selfless in the giving of ourselves and our gifts to others what a world it would be……I will continue to strive to learn from you and also share what I can. The re posting of some letters from the past make it evident that your gift is without end, that these letters can be re-read and still bear further gifts of knowledge and insight. Perhaps a different passage that resonates more, is more relevant to the recipient a few years down and in a different phase of their creative journey. I am often approached by young artists wanting advice and the most valuable direction I can ever give them is the link to your website. Thank you for your help now and for the future.
Dear Robert, You are on my heart constantly because you have been such a wise and stimulating friend through the years I’ve read these precious letters. I am praying that this season will be filled with “the peace that passes understanding” and that knowing about the thousands of people you have blessed will fill you with great joy. May the Lord restore you completely.
One of my favourites!! As a single mother, i find all kinds of excuses not to allow myself “art time” — and then if i don’t, everything else falls apart.. so i must go !
The Maslow model is universally generic and very helpful as a reminder at times when we lose focus or things just somehow go astray. But I would never subscribe to a recipe of what my life should be (with no liability by the way). There is nothing new under the sun from the perspective of the sun, but from my perspective, everything is new. Every day I come across a new discovery, and in many cases they unapologetically dont fit in the Maslow chart. For me, the must is about unfolding my own genuine path.
For over 20 years I helped individuals find out and honor their values, such as Adventure, Creativity and Community. We can not get to the values till the needs are met or at least recognized. A project of bringing attention to the decline of the environment was on my mind for 10 years but could not be fulfilled. My need of not being a failure was stronger. I had a realization that if I did NOT do it, this would be the failure. I now am realizing what I need to do, acknowledge that getting it started is a success. All sorts of unforeseen events have led up to communicating about it to others including you, Robert. Terry Thirion
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Selfishness tends to crop up in the negative sense when it has a definite positive side. Maslow quoted “family” in two areas of his pyramid. Sacrifices made in the name of family can skewer personal development to where you (as in all of us) will never rise above midlevel: that is the worst of failures. The sad part is those who demand the most least appreciate the sacrifice. I’ve done that. Place a reasonable limit on love, support, and help to fulfill your calling. That is a lovely painting.